We survived the first three weeks!

Another long post...no pictures because our camera is officially busted. We have the worst luck with cameras. So we've been in the city for three weeks now...and nothing catastrophic has happened yet. There have been a few meltdowns (between Ava and myself) but all in all we are doing pretty well. So here is the rundown on our life for the past little while.

We checked into our apartment (it does feel like we moved into a hotel a little bit) and waited for the arrival of our new mattress set. We were so excited to have a new mattress set since the one we had in Charlotte was over ten years old that were handed down to us from David's parents. So besides the mattress set and the wire frame that came with it, we had no other furniture. We decided to go the super ghetto route and not even have a real bed frame because we thought there would be absolutely no room in our bedroom for a large bedroom set. Ava slept on the blow up mattress in her room but ended up in our bed eventually every night.

The next day (February 16), David started work. He has to get into work at 6:30am. Ava and I sat around twiddling our thumbs, not knowing what to do exactly. Our furniture was not going to arrive for another two days. The weather was abominable and I wasn't familiar with anything to go anywhere. It took me three weeks to realize that across the street from where we live are "projects". Talk about clueless. So we live in a brand new building that is still under construction in some areas. There is a beautiful indoor pool, a small gym, a lounge area, and a children's playroom. I think the amenities are quite nice. We live next to Whole Foods, TJ Maxx, and Michael's. As for our apartment, it is 810 square feet, with 2 bathrooms and 2 bedrooms. Who would've thought that our 1700 square foot house in Charlotte would seem like a palace? The big selling point for our apartment is the washer and dryer in our apartment. This is a rarity I've been told. Hey people out there, don't take your house for granted!!!!

We had four nice guys from church and David's sister Julie, her husband Andrew, and little Grant come help and unload our moving truck. This is the amazing thing about our church. You can move anywhere and not know anyone but once you get in contact with the right person, people are willing to help you move! David was (and is still) gimpy so he couldn't do any moving. Once all of the boxes were unloaded, our apartment looked super small and I was very overwhelmed. Two weeks after our shipment arrived, everything was out of boxes but the apartment was a hazardous obstacle course. Piles of clothing, toys, and pointless junk were everywhere. I'm looking around at our apartment today and it definitely looks a lot better, but there are some things we just don't have room for (like David's childhood mementos, his golf clubs, our China set, and our Christmas decorations). Our new small couch arrived the day after our shipment, so it was nice to finally have a comfortable place to sit down.

Ava was happy to see her crib, but she didn't sleep very well. She had gotten used to sleeping with us so we are thankful for our King-sized bed to accommodate all three of us. It has really been an adjustment period for all of us. David gets home from work by 6:30pm, which is fabulous. We are so grateful for his new job, since he was laid off for over four months before starting this new one. However, we have gotten so used to him being at home all day every day, that it is really hard to not have him at home. Being my large and lazy pregnant self, it is hard to entertain Ava. Everyday for the past three weeks, I take her down to the playroom and hope that some other child will join her in the fun. She doesn't like the playroom much when no other children are there.

Most of the days over the past three weeks had temperature in the 30s. I just did not feel like venturing out much. I don't really have warm winter clothes that even fit me at this point. Although I am pretty proud of myself for the places that I have been to already. The library is a 5 minute walk from our apartment so we've been there for storytime. It is hard to want to go out because I am just so ill-equipped. I have learned that our $15 junky umbrella stroller is not cutting it. I have never seen so many fancy strollers in my life. I've heard people say "well, this is my "car", so I need to buy a good stroller." You really do need a good stroller because my junky stroller can barely maneuver around the dog poop, spit, slushy snow and general nastiness on the sidewalk. I may need to invest in a Phil and Ted's double stroller soon.

There were a few more traumatic things I had to deal with, like finding an obstetrician. Nobody would take me because I was too far along. I was starting to get really frustrated and anxious because I was already 35 weeks along by the time I was calling around for a doctor. The fact that all the midwives and doctors were rejecting me felt like the city was rejecting me, which is totally ridiculous, but it just felt horrible. Finally, I did find a doctor and all is well. Selling our Camry (we sold our Subaru Outback in Charlotte) was quite frustrating too. Let's just say it involved someone who wanted to buy our car on Craigslist saying we were unethical because we backed out of the sale at the last minute. We sold it for the exact same price to the Toyota dealer. For some reason, dealing with a dealership rather than a private buyer made us more comfortable, even if we didn't make any extra money! I hated the fact that someone on Craigslist was really mad at us. I'm just sensitive about being called unethical.

There's a lot more to say but I'll post more later...